Re-Read the Title
Please do me a quick favor and re-read the title. It’s important. What does it say? It says what you thought it said the first time. Yes, I cried more for a lost dog than I did when I lost either my father or mother.
What kind of person would say such a thing? Honestly, someone with a better grip on spiritual realities than one might think.
The Sting of Death
“O death, where is thy sting? O grave, where is thy victory? The sting of death is sin; and the strength of sin is the law. But thanks be to God, which giveth us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.” (1 Corinthians 15:55–57) But do you know of whom Paul was speaking? Not animals.
Paul says the “sting” of death is sin. Do animals sin? Of course not. But they do die, don’t they? Romans 8 says that “the creature was made subject to vanity” and that “the whole creation groaneth and travaileth in pain together until now” (vv. 20, 22). It also says that “the creature itself also shall be delivered from the bondage of corruption into the glorious liberty of the children of God” (v. 21). Adam’s sin brought death to all creation, not only Eve and himself.
So did the animals benefit from the same victory? Is the “sting” of death present with animals, but not the victory? I’m sure others have wrestled with these questions far more than I have. But my beloved dog George is missing, and it has made me more aware than ever of the blessing Paul describes in those verses.
Inconsolable Grief
If you could have been around me the last few days, you would have heard me weep and wail louder than I have in decades. George is missing, and no body has been found. I don’t know whether he’s alive or dead, and honestly that may be harder than having the closure of a grave.
The closest thing I can compare it to is when I realized my relationship with my first fiancée was truly over. I cried so hard and for so long that I was inconsolable.
By the way, her name was Lisa, if you want to know. Lisa was a huge Disney fan. She even worked at the Disney Store in the mall. Next time you see her, you can tell her I still feel remnants of the pain four decades later, and that I hate Mickey Mouse because of her. Just saying.
And why was the grief so painful? Because there was no hope afterward. It was over. She was gone forever.
Consolable Grief
On the other hand, consider the deaths of both my mother and father. My father’s death was sudden and unexpected, so it was more painful than when my mother finally went home after battling painful pancreatic cancer. But the big difference between their deaths and Lisa breaking up with me is that one loss was final, and the others were not.
Paul wrote that “if in this life only we have hope in Christ, we are of all men most miserable” (1 Corinthians 15:19). But because of Jesus Christ, we do not mourn “even as others which have no hope” (1 Thessalonians 4:13). Death is not the end for the Christian! One day we will be reunited with our loved ones who have gone on.
God’s grace let me be consoled at the death of my parents because their departure is temporary. I will see them again.
The Loss of My Dog
That is why losing George has made me so thankful. Don’t get me wrong, my heart is broken into a thousand pieces over my little buddy. The ache in my chest is worse than anything I felt at my parents’ funerals. But it has made me thankful for the hope in Christ that tells me death is not the end.
So that’s why you’ll see me mourn longer for my dog than for my parents. I may or may not see George again in heaven. That’s still up for debate. But I WILL see my mom and dad!
And yes, Lisa did become a believing Christian, so I’m sure she’ll be there, and I’ll see her, too. But not until I’ve spent time greeting my near and distant loved ones and gone down the list of all the Apostles, major prophets, minor prophets, unnamed prophets, unmentioned prophets, righteous deacons, the entire first-century Church, and all my fellow Baptists who by God’s grace actually made it in. I just doubt her heavenly mansion will look like Cinderella Castle.
But I sure do hope George is there.










