Signs of Flirting?

The following is Part 1 of a 3-part series originally written in Sept. of 2013. I thought it would be a good time to repeat it.

Uncomfortable Topic

OK, so this is not a subject I normally discuss, but I feel I must say something.

I have seen several pieces in the news about how to know when a man is flirting, but the signs leave me a little puzzled. I mean, I am a man, so I should have some knowledge of when I am flirting, correct? But, evidently, I may be flirting when I don’t know it!

I don’t remember the sources for theย following, but if you want to, just Google them (It is not my intention to plagiarize, but I am not getting graded on a paper, applying for a job, or getting paid for this post, so I’m not going to worry too much at this point). Here are…

Ten (supposed) ways to know a man is flirting with you:

  1. flirtingHe makes eye contact when he talks.
  2. He touches his face.
  3. He laughs at a girl’s jokes.
  4. He messes with his own hair.
  5. He tries to gain your attention.
  6. He leans in closer when you talk.
  7. He touches you on the shoulder.
  8. He always has a smile.
  9. He puts his hands on his waist.
  10. He throws rocks at you from across the playground.

Analysis of List

First, I always thought that I was supposed to make eye contact when talking with someone. Does this mean that every time I look someone in the eyes I am flirting? I guess I am going to have to revert back to my insecure, shifty-eye days.

Second, what if a guy feels bugs crawling on his face and in his hair? Should #2 and #4 on the list be avoided? I mean, if I get an itch, does that mean a woman is going to slap me?

Third, maybe guys are just being nice, you know? I try to smile at everybody’s jokes, don’t you? Sometimes a girl can be funny, even when she is ugly as a burnt tree.

Attention? What’s wrong with trying to get someone’s attention? Sure, there are different ways to do that, but come on! Just because I honk my horn at a lady walking down the street does not mean I want a date; there may be a tiger behind her, or a hole in front of her. The right thing to do is warn her.

Next (is this fifth?), the reason I lean in closer to a girl is because I am deaf from all the head-banging Southern Gospel music I have played.

Sixth, I may put my hands on my waist, but it might only mean I am disgusted with you. I would hardly call that flirting. But if I do put my hand on your shoulder, it might mean that I am secretly trying to see if the Vulcan grip really works.

Seventh, I always smile. Not really. That’s a lie.

Eighthly, ninethly, and tenthly, if I throw a rock at you on the playground, then I am absolutely flirting. Every boy knows that’s the way you let a girl know you like her. But since I am married, and since flirting with other women could cause my wife to do bad things to me in my sleep, I will keep my rocks to myself.

One Other Thing

There was one other sign that I did not include in the above list, but was in one article I read: “If a guy plays footsies with you in the sand, he might be flirting.”

If a guy starts rubbing his feet all over yours, that’s not a sign of flirting, people; that’s something way more. Ladies (and I am talking to women at this point), either get wedding invitations ready, or make use of a well-placed knee. You need no other signs.

Your welcome.ย 


Filed under current events, General Observations, Humor, Life Lessons, wisdom

11 responses to “Signs of Flirting?

  1. Haha! Very good! I bet whoever wrote those rules got paid for it!

  2. Ha, ha, this was pure awesomeness. As a teen/young adult I’ve heard of some of these before and it was interesting hearing a comical twist to it! ๐Ÿ˜‚ I can definitely relateโ€”just because I smile or look a guy in the eyes when I’m talking does NOT mean I’m flirting. Good job clearing that up! ๐Ÿ‘

  3. Reblogged this on 1timothy412girl and commented:

    Hey everyone, I was scrolling through my feed this morning and I stumbled across this hilariously awesome article by The Recovering Legalist. I found it too funny to keep to myself so I decided to share it with you guys. I hope you enjoy it!

  4. Eye contact…but I always look at people in the eyes when I talk to them in person!
    Still helpful some of the items on the list.

  5. Fun posts with a degree of fact are my favorites. You’re welcome. ๐Ÿ˜€ ๐Ÿ˜€ ๐Ÿ˜€

  6. Hahahaha…. This just cracked me up— when you smile at a girl’s joke even when she is as ugly as a burnt tree and you honking because there could be a tiger behind her or a hole infront of her are my best parts.. ๐Ÿ˜€ ๐Ÿ˜€

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